What is Loneliness??
Hello Guys, I am here to share with you what is loneliness? Have you ever felt lonely in this world? Is it good to be lonely ? how many among us are lonely from heart ? People do have so many things to ask but strange part is they are not able to find answers.
We have two things – Being lonely and being alone in this world. Being lonely is somehow easy but difficult to survive. People can be lonely anywhere – whether in a crowd, in a group of people , with family, friends . Ask yourself how often have you felt this ?
People reading this blog I am sure will remember his/her moment when this happened with them. Loneliness is a feeling that causes people to feel that they are all alone , no body wants to be with them , they are unhappy . If a person wants to talk about their problem or anything good about with other person but that other person doesn’t have time or is not interested in that matter , loneliness comes into picture.
How it is Related?
In other words, somehow loneliness is to be said as being alone in this context. Loneliness is really bad which destroys your physical as well as mental health. Also, there would be times when you are not able to sleep and only feel that – “ No one is with you with whom you can talk , you can share your feelings.
“ Those people will themselves thing they are not intelligent, not worthy, broken , are not able to do anything in life. But you know actually at this particular point of time , lonely people need those people around who are actually close to them. It can be any family member, any friend , any close fellow member who can actually take them out of this .
But unfortunately, all people are not Lucky to get someone close like this. The lonely person must be shown , how important they are in other person’s life. They must be told they are not useless person as they perceive themselves to be. For Eg – with a person who feels particularly unloved and unwanted, someone close to them should try to take a little extra time to spend with that person and try to set aside a little extra time to talk to the person.
World is Lonely
We don’t need to do anything special. Simply giving time to them , making them feel comfortable when they talk , holding their hand and saying I am and will always be with you . This will make them feel better and they will gradually become better.
There was a beautiful quote which really touched me – “Let me tell you this: if you meet a loner, no matter what they tell you, it’s not because they enjoy solitude. It’s because they have tried to blend into the world before, and people continue to disappoint them.”
We can Help Lonely People
So, Where the outworld seems to be filled with interesting people, there are actually few people who are lonely from inside. The reasons can be –
- You yourself believe that you are lonely – You yourself feel that you are lonely . If you wont stop feeling that no matter how hard you change things to be it wont be changed.
- You are somehow suffering from depression – In this situation, it is really tough to connect with the people around you. Loneliness and depression have link with each other.
- Difficult to accept that world is like this – The world is completely selfish and now a days majority of people don’t think about anyone’s feeling. So the more early you will accept this fact, the more easy it would be for you to be out of this loneliness.
- You personally don’t know yourself – Try to figure out what makes you happy . Take time for yourself as if you don’t know yourself personally , how you expect the people close to you know you. Try to do some self development things and improve upon .
“Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself.” I think everybody gets lonely sometimes. I don’t know if people can ever understand how you can be in a room full of people and be lonely sometimes.
How to Overcome?
So, Let us all promise ourselves that whenever we feel lonely, we will do few things that excite us-
- Try to go on a Solo Trip – Plan out something nice and exciting for yourself . Trust me , you would love this. A date where you want to go to a place of your own , do what makes you happy, eat what you like.
- Watch a Amazing movie – Plan to watch a movie alone or with some of your friends that will change your mood and makes you feel relax.
- Try to meet out those who are actually your true friends – Meeting with those who are true friends will really make you feel really comfortable and in a happy mood.
- Volunteer yourself – Try to volunteer yourself in some kind of orphanage or any NGO. Helping the less fortunate will also fill you with immense gratitude.
“Loneliness is the human condition. No one is ever going to fill that space. The best you can do is know yourself, know what you want.”