What is Freedom??
Pheww!! A Big word Freedom. What does Freedom actually mean? How would every individual take this word? Freedom is something every individual must have heard off but its meaning and how it is taken depends upon individual to individual. I don’t think so anyone can describe Freedom. To live a life according to your own will is freedom, having a right to speak is a freedom. When people say a word Freedom , I relate to freedom of choice. I would like to ask you what according to you is Freedom.
Freedom is the actions of the individuals who don’t need to ask themselves why? They just need to do the things they like to or they love to. Freedom is simply no borders. From my childhood , I have read the thinking of every single parent if you give freedom to a boy child that’s ok .But where the freedom is given to a girl child that’s not acceptable. Majority of the families think this way. Buy why and till when? That’s another part of the discussion.
Freedom has a Positive Impact
The idea of freedom is to be respectful and useful to our society. I am sure freedom is important to everyone . When freedom is granted to a person, he thinks freely, do whatever he wants to do in his life.
Freedom is being you without taking permission from anyone. Earlier time was tough especially when women didn’t have a right to freedom. They were not allowed to speak, to live their own life. In Today’s era still the society has still many such examples. Though we do say we are Women Empowered society but Still lack in many kind of freedom.
“Be that strong girl that everyone knew would make it through the worst, be that fearless girl, the one who would dare to do anything, be that independent girl who didn’t need a man; be that girl who never backed down.”
How one relate to Freedom?
The freedom from something is not true freedom. The freedom to do anything you want to do is also not the freedom I am talking about – My vision of freedom is to be yourself.
Ahh !!! Suppose a person is divorced, he wants to go in a Pub with his friends. He actually loves to hang out with his friends. According to you what is there which is stopping his freedom. The answer is what the society would think. How would they react when they would see a divorced man going to a Pub. Stop looking at what people would say .
You don’t need anyone’s permission to be yourself. If you would learn this you would actually know the True meaning of freedom. I also live a life followed by society’s expectations and like all other have the same life everyone else has. But there are times that certain things make me unhappy and I have realized that I am living a life not of a freedom and not true to myself.
Are we really selfish??
Being yourself does not mean you are selfish and it doesn’t mean you don’t care about others. Being yourself means you like who you are. Being yourself means living life how you want to live it, regardless of other people’s opinions and for this we don’t need anyone’s permission. And it means you respect yourself.
Stop worrying about what the other person is thinking . If you really like who you are. That’s what is important and that’s what is true freedom .
“Be yourself, don’t take anything from anyone, and never let them take you alive.”